Maternal Line Class

 

The next intake for the Learning School is planned for 2025, please email to be added to the waiting list.

I have been working deeply to co-create Tending Hope, a community of connection and liberation with the intention and purpose of Tending Grief and Hope of the Entanglements Held by the Land for Re-membering and Liberation.  The work I have been undertaking over much of the last decade has been entrenched in the realms of collective entangled memories. The memories passed from generation to generation and held in our bodies, the land, the water and deep within our souls. I am taking time to weave this new knowing and unfolding into the Learning School and re-imagine the offerings and teachings.  


Online Learning Group Constellation – Mother’s Line 

Women’s stories and contributions are often unacknowledged, unseen, and silent. The missing voices and stories become an all too familiar part of the everyday landscape passing from one generation to the next. In the familiarity of the absence, the missing pieces can go unnoticed and unquestioned. That doesn’t mean that those pieces don’t exist.

There is a vast spectrum of voiceless female experience that informs who each of us are today in many different ways.

The seat of our emotional belonging and the root of so much of our invisibly inherited relationship ‘stuff’ resides in the emotionally weighted connection with our maternal line and field. The commonly held belief that we are just not enough and not worthy of love so often comes from this part of our ancestral field. It is also influential upon creativity, emotional communication, and sacrifice. If it is disrupted or entangled in any way then we suffer greatly with our self-worth and confidence. We can lurch from one relationship to the next or suffer in an emotionally vulnerable relationship in the hope that we will eventually be loved.

The legacy of these voiceless women, the ghosts that have been walking with us, have been walking through our lineage for generation upon generation. Some of those ghosts are wounded, scarred, prickly and often haunted by their own ghosts. The legacy of such wounded ghosts is the creation of more wounded and scarred souls, the people in your family that have been entangled by the cost of the women before them being rendered voiceless and unseen. The pain is real and it is lived generationally.

Below is a brief outline of the discussion topics we will aim to cover in our time together.

  • Basic principles of constellation
  • The place of the Mother and Female line within constellation
  • Common patterns & entanglements associated with the Mother:
    Reversal of the female line
    A loyalty from child to grandmother excluding the mother
    Responsibility for survival/non-survival
    Influence on work and creativity
    Influence on intimate relationships
    Influence on parenthood
    Funding of creativity
    Funding of Time
    Displacement from Land
    Loss of voice
    Abuse and Anger/ Secrets and the Unseen
    Inherited silence and forbidden place
  • Guided individual connection with the Female line
  • Group constellation exploring the above and/or outcomes of individual connection work
  • Individual homework assignments
  • Individual sessions
  • Optional Mentoring sessions

There will be full notes provided of the topics discussed. The class will be recorded for catch up.

3 x 3hr group topic sessions
1 x 3hr Q&A and recap session
2 x 1hr individual constellation sessions
2 x 1 hr homework group sessions

It is £500 for the class. (This can be paid by instalments.)

Contact Nikki for more information or to book your place.